Healing Stories & Energy Work with Xavier Roman & Manon on The Healers Café
In this episode of The Healers Café, Manon Bolliger, FCAH, RBHT (facilitator and retired naturopath with 30+ years of practice) speaks Xavier Roman shared his journey of discovering his healing abilities at age five, when he healed a crying mother and child by channeling a white light. He recounted his near-death experience during appendicitis surgery, where he observed the operation and brought himself back to life.
Highlights from today’s episode include:
Xavier discovered his healing abilities as a child and continued to develop them, often helping others without revealing his gift.
Xavier explains a near-death experience profoundly shaped his understanding of healing, and he now demonstrates his energy healing process to help others, as shown during the podcast.
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Manon reflects on the healing process, emphasizing the importance of the healer-client relationship and the integration of energetic and traditional therapies for holistic health.

ABOUT XAVIER ROMAN:
My name is Xavier, and I can heal people facing any physical, emotional, or mental health concerns with in-person and distance healing.
My healing abilities emerged at age five and heightened when my mom was in a near-death car accident. That experience allowed me to use my healing capabilities to support her healing journey. My gift of channeling energy to heal became stronger after I experienced an NDE & Near-Death Experience; during emergency surgery in July 2010. I flat lined, witnessed my surgery, and heard the surgeon and assistants as they scattered to bring me back to life. Since then, my body and mind healing techniques have continued to strengthen and emerge.
I’ve met with and continue to help people on a national basis. People with chronic pain, undiagnosed and diagnosed health issues, mental health issues, and more. I’ve also supported individuals who were told they would pass away due to various medical conditions and restored them back to stable health conditions.
Although I’ve never announced my healing abilities at great lengths to others, I’ve been guided to do so now. I truly feel called to connect with those needing healing more than ever.
People may think you need to be a saint or a mystical figure to perform healing. However, I have been presented with this gift and have received thousands of testimonials from my clients on transformations that have occurred through and after healing sessions with me. I welcome the billions of people on this planet to have hope and welcome the power of energy healing into their lives.
Core purpose/passion: I’m passionate about changing people’s lives

ABOUT MANON BOLLIGER, FCAH, RBHT
As a recently De-Registered board-certified naturopathic physician & in practice since 1992, I’ve seen an average of 150 patients per week and have helped people ranging from rural farmers in Nova Scotia to stressed out CEOs in Toronto to tri-athletes here in Vancouver.
My resolve to educate, empower and engage people to take charge of their own health is evident in my best-selling books: ‘What Patients Don’t Say if Doctors Don’t Ask: The Mindful Patient-Doctor Relationship’ and ‘A Healer in Every Household: Simple Solutions for Stress’. I also teach BowenFirst™ Therapy through Bowen College and hold transformational workshops to achieve these goals.
So, when I share with you that LISTENING to Your body is a game changer in the healing process, I am speaking from expertise and direct experience”.
Mission: A Healer in Every Household!
For more great information to go to her weekly blog: http://bowencollege.com/blog.
For tips on health & healing go to: https://www.drmanonbolliger.com/tips
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TRANSCRIPT
Introduction 00:00
Welcome to the Healers Café. The number one show for medical practitioners and holistic healers, to have heart to heart conversations about their day to day lives, while sharing their expertise for improving your health and wellness.
Manon Bolliger 00:17
Welcome to the healers Cafe, and today I have with me Xavier Roman. And let me just tell you a little bit about his his gifts and his skill set. He can heal people facing any physical, emotional or mental health concerns, both with in person and distant healing. And so this is really the time where people are waking up to skills that might be dormant. Some of us were the skills were suppressed. But in your case, I’d really like you to share your story how your skills became so prominent, and why your calling right now is to reach as many people in the world to help them so to you.
Xavier Roman 01:14
Okay, well, thank you for having me. First of all, I appreciate it. So it all started off when I was five years old. I was five years old and I was let me see, 12345, about five blocks from my house, which some I would never do today. I wouldn’t let my sin go that far. Five years old, just saying. But I was at that time, right across the street from the park that I’d normally go to, and when I was close to the park, I was right across kitty corner, and I seen a mom and a child. They were crying. So they were crying that the child was hugging the mom by her waist, and he was crying, you could hear it, and she was too. And as a five year old, that’s a little bit a little bit worrisome, a little bit scary too. Like, wow, this is we’re in public, you know, like any adult crying, you know, I would think you get scared as a five year old, you know, including get scared, get worried. Like, oh, my God, what’s happening? There someone else around here that’s going on that why they’re crying. And so immediately I was like, Man, I want to help them. I want to help them like, I don’t know what came over me, but maybe that’s a natural thing for a child to want to, you know, help people, especially as an adult and a kid, from crying. And so I immediately said, Okay, I’m going to try to help them. I don’t know why I did it, but I closed my eyes, and I looked straight at them. I don’t know if they were looking at me. Maybe the mom was, but I put my head down, and then I felt this white light come all through my body, and I felt very light, and I felt like, extremely good. I don’t know if I was in at that time, I would describe like, Wow, am I in heaven, like it happened so quick. So I felt like this big ball of white light, and then I wanted it to go straight at them. And so I kept on, you know, wanting for them to feel better, wanting for them to feel better. And I seen that white light go towards them, and then I stopped and opened my eyes, and I looked at them, and within about a couple of seconds, the mom stopped crying, the kid let go, the mom and they were both looking in opposite directions, like, what’s going on? Because they stopped crying so fast. I mean, I still heard them while my eyes are closed, but then I, you know, heard it stop, and then I opened my eyes and but again, you know, they’re looking around like, and then I’m looking at them like they had to look at like, Hey, what happened? You know, I was like, what happened? And then I’m like, I mean, I can still feel it like to this day, yeah, like, wow, did I do that? Like, oh, my God, what if I did that? What? What if I did that? I says, wow. I says, Yeah, I think I did it. No, I don’t know. And then I was like, Wait, hold on, I could be a superhero. I said, What if I’m a superhero? Oh, my God. Oh my god. Like, you know, I was, I was glad to and but at the same time, you know, I didn’t know what was going on. Um, so then I just walked straight home from there, and then I had all these thoughts going through my head. And, you know, I’m looking ..
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at my hands, and I’m like, like, hey, when’s the flying come? Like, my hands start flying now, like, where, where’s the rest of these powers at you? And then I was like, Oh, my God, what if I can start running faster? I mean, all these thoughts were coming in my head, you know, like, if I did that, then, like, what else I should be? To do something else. I have to, you know, I’ve been watching these cartoons, the superheroes, all this time. And what about me, you know? And so, you know, I was thinking also, who should I tell? Who should I tell? Who should I tell? Like, nope, nope. Thinking about all you know, family members, I was like, Nope, there’s no way I can’t tell No, they’ll think of crazy, that they go crazy, or like, no, they’re not gonna believe me this, and that they’re not gonna believe me, whatever. No, not gonna tell my friends. Because, no, they’re really like, think I’m crazy, and then I was okay, you know, I’ll try this out again another time. And so the next time I tried it, I went to a doctor’s office with my mom, and we had went into the doctor’s office, and I knew, like, Okay, this just happened the other day ago. I’m going to try this in here. Let me look for some scanning someone like, let me see who looks sick. Not just there for an appointment. But I was looking for something who’s like, hurling, you know, head down, like holding something that was hurt, or something like that. I was looking for that indicator. And then I did see somebody again. I could see it like, as if it’s to this day, and I could look at them right now, and someone was holding their stomach, and they were down, like, like, you know, they want to get in there so bad in the back surface. And so I said, Okay, let me try this. And then I did the same thing, and then I felt the same thing, and I felt real warm, and it felt good. And I put, I put my attention, intention, towards them. And then I opened my eyes. And then the person just they did the same thing, and they’re like, no, they’re like, like, you know, they’re looking around, like, what are they doing there? Yeah, like, like, as if, like, wait. And then they’re touching themselves, like, you know, their stomach area, like, Wait, like, hey, this thing’s gone. Like, it’s, what’s, what’s going on, you know, of course, they didn’t know it’s me, that I was doing that or trying to do that. And then, so then they’re just sitting back, and then they stand up doing one of these, you know, like, you know, seeing, like, Hey, where’s that thing? You know, it’s been here so long, almost, one of those types of deals. And then after a while, they get up, they go to the front, I mean, you know, I gotta go, you know, can I just make an appointment for another time? You know? Yeah, you know, I got an appointment and going. I was like, that worked. I heard what he said, You know, I heard what he said because I was really listening to what he’s gonna say. I was being nosy at the desk. And, yeah, he just left. Like, hey, don’t you need to see I thought you were. No, no, no, I’m I’m okay. I’m okay, you know, like, I really got somewhere to go on that. He said, No, I feel, I feel I can manage, you know, and so forth. And then I was like, I think I did. I said, I think I gotta do it again. I gotta do it again. And so, you know, I would do it as appointments went on. You know, I would ask my mind, Hey, can I go to the doctor like crazy? You want to go to me to the doctor like you guys don’t like going to doctor. Mind you, there’s five of us kids and so forth, and nobody ever likes going to the doctor that I know. And, and, yeah. And then that was it. And then I kept on doing it, and people kept on reacting like that. And my mom ever had to go to the hospital to go visit somebody, family member or something like that, I was for sure to be the first one, can I go? Can I go? Can I go? And then I would try to walk by rooms and stand my rooms and just, you know, do it to people and so forth, if they were in hospital beds, and especially the person, if we’re going to go see them so but I but since it was enclosed, if we, like, went to a hospital room, I would just have to pretend like, you know, like I’m holding myself, you know, so they couldn’t see me, like, concentrate and put my head down and relax otherwise, you know, my mom, or whoever she went to go see like, Hey, what is he doing? Like, what is he falling asleep in here? So, you know, I’d have to do it like that. Like, yeah, one of those kinds of deals. So pretend, play it off, you know, like, I wasn’t really, you know, concentrated. Yeah, so it just, it just kept on happening, kept on happening, and then I just kept on doing it, and it kept on working and kept on working. So as a little kid, I didn’t remember it not working. I didn’t, I don’t remember it not working. Yeah, even, like, if there was, like chaos around the house, or somewhere around there where there was something bad going on, I remember doing that, and then they would bring peace, and then things would stop. Yeah, yeah. They.
Manon Bolliger 09:59
It’s it’s interesting that at such a young age, not that you had the gift that that I understand, but that you also had the the ability to know, not to tell the people who would squash it right, because most of our culture would go, that’s just in your head, or, Oh yeah, saying like this, or, you know, and you knew that you didn’t want to hear any of that. You just wanted to be, you know, the master of your own destiny here at a very young age. I think it’s, it’s very it’s interesting, and I think a lot of people who do share end up having having this squashed in them, right?
Xavier Roman 10:46
Yeah, they do. They do. And on that note, what you just said, I had this. It felt like there’s like an internal voice. But I says, Should I tell? Should I tell people? And I would always get it, no, not yet, not yet. Not yet, not yet. Okay, that makes sense. I don’t want to hear it, you know. I really don’t want to hear and so forth. And in hindsight. And that was a great idea, because if I would have, if I would have, you know, houses ideas, especially, you know, family members, like, You’re crazy, what are you thinking about? They would have squashed it. I would have been like, ah, you know, maybe they’re right, you know, let me stop this and that, and I would have went along with it and so forth. Yeah, you’re right. Yeah, you’re definitely
Manon Bolliger 11:27
right. So what? What then, because in your in your bio, you talk about a near death experience and that being pivotal. Do you want to share a little bit about that?
Xavier Roman 11:39
Yeah, yeah, definitely. I believe it’s about 30 at the time, I had been feeling bad for my stomach. I’ve been getting this pain, these pains in my stomach. And at the time, I was married, and then I had told my wife at the time, like, hey, look, I know. I don’t call you know, I’m not a complainer, and you know, I don’t share bad news or any of that stuff, I says. But I gotta tell you, there’s something going on in my stomach, but it’s kind of to the right side of my stomach, but it’s like, by my stomach, it says it’s bad. I said, I don’t know what I’ve been trying to do whatever I could. And it doesn’t feel like a stomach pain. It feels like something else, like it like, like, I’m balled up right now while I’m talking to you, like, Oh my God, and I’m thinking, it could be this. Could be this, let me try this and try this and try this. And it was not going away. And then, and then I did think to myself, because I remember, I was talking with somebody at the time, the day before, and we had a we had a talk. Hey, what would you what would you eat? If you know is your last meal and you’re gonna die, if you knew you’re gonna die, og and I was like, oh, man, I think you know what I’d eat. I have pizza and some wings. That’s it. I said, you know. But I want these types of wings, you know, not the other original wings, but I want these types. Um, yeah, that that’s what I would do. I would definitely do eat that and and I had ate that two days in a row, and then when I was laying down, I was like, Oh, my God, oh, this is better. Now this can’t be this. This is bad. But like, Wow, is this something like, is something gonna happen? Like, why? Like, no, no, no, no, no. I did eat pizza last two days straight. Oh, my God. Like, you know, I was like, no, no, no, no, this, maybe they’ll give me something and and I’ll snap right out of it. So we went ahead, went to the hospital, and I had told my wife at the time, I said, Hey, listen, we’re gonna go to the hospital downtown. Well, then we should go to one that’s close. There’s one that’s like, 10 minutes away, or there’s one that’s 15 minutes away. I was like, No, we’re gonna go to the to the real good one downtown Chicago. I says, because that’s probably the best, and I’m not coming back home. Like, what do you mean? I just got this feeling I’m not coming back home right away. I said, so if I’m going to stay somewhere, it’s not going to be at those place, it’s going to be there. And I didn’t know what it was, but that was just my feeling. Okay. Are you sure? You sure? I says, Yeah, you know, I’ll just endure the pain, you know, take the 40 minute ride instead of, you know, the 1015, minute ride. I says, I know what I’m doing. Let’s just go there. I never been there or had to go there for myself, but like, I was like, we’re going there, you know. And so they’re like, oh, okay, you know, you’re having this appendix thing, and this that, my God, no wonder what that is like. Okay, but we’re gonna have to move it. You gotta start drinking this stuff and blah, blah, blah. And then we’re gonna go ahead and schedule time between today and tonight, and then we’ll. Have to go ahead and do that right
Manon Bolliger 15:01
away. So, appendicitis, yeah, okay,
Xavier Roman 15:06
yeah, yeah. And so then I was like, Wow, no wonder. Okay, cool. You know, that’s, that’s, yeah, let’s do it. You know, like, this ain’t going away. You guys got me hooked up to this, and it’s, it’s lessening the pain. But, like, I that stuff is dead. Like, yeah, it’s there because of this and that this that I said, okay, cool. So they do the surgery. I come out, we, you know, a couple of days go by, I’m in the hospital, and I go home, and they give me some meds. And I had, like, about a week full of meds. Maybe it was about seven days I had the meds. But like, after, like, about, I want to say it was, like, about five days I start getting cold and hot, cold and hot. And I’m like, wow, you know, like, how am I getting hot? In this house? Is cold, it says, And then, how am I getting cold? And, you know, I know it’s 101 it’s like, about 101 degrees on that weekend. It’s that week, I was like, something’s going on, something’s going on. And then I would take the pill, the antibiotic they gave me, and then would help for a little while, but then, boom, it would just go away. And then we finally called, hey, you need to get them back in here. There’s something going on. It might be from the surgery. And I’m like, okay, yeah, that makes sense. Let’s just go, you know? And so we went, and they’re like, Hey, listen, you have an infection. And this infection, this type, it’s traveling up through your from your your like my stomach area, and it’s going up, but if this gets towards your heart, there’s there’s nothing we could do, so we have to do a surgery immediately, because you’re not taken to the antibiotics that We’ve had you hooked on, and it looks like that’s not going to do it, and we’re going to have to go ahead and do that, me and my wife and dad, like, what I thought I’d get, like, a couple pills and, like, we’d be out of here, like, maybe stay a day or something like that. Like, surgery, what? Like, if I don’t get rid of this, like, I’m gonna, I’m gonna die, you know, like, and they’re like, let me like, No, this is, this is what it is. This is where we’re at. Like, I’m sorry to tell you, I’m like, come on. You know, that’s his face I’m looking like, Oh my God. This thing turned from, this is like, man. I’m like, Well, I have a choice, you know, that’s, yeah, of course, I’ll do it, you know. Like, yeah, you know, like, Okay, we’re gonna do this at this time and so forth. Yeah, that’s, that’s, that’s what you gotta do. I say, okay, cool. And so then I go ahead, get prepped, it will then go in. And the last thing I could remember them saying, Okay, you’re going to go to sleep in. Usually counts for three seconds, if you’ve ever had surgery or something like that, before they put that the gas on you or whatever. And I just remember one, boom. I was about to say two, and the ounce is gone. But then after a while, I remember I was outside my body, and I had my arms crossed like this. I’m just looking I’m just just watching him, and I could hear them talking. They’re doing the surgery. And so forth. And then he had cut the surgeon. He had cut from like my belly button down, and then boom, everything, you know, it busted. And then the blood and pus went all over his his attire. And luckily, he had one of those masks. I guess you knew what was going to happen when those plastic masking for work, you know, he had swore, Oh, crap, you know, it’s mad. And and then they continued. And then boom, you hear the machine, you know, heartbeat stop. And then they started panicking and this net and scrambling, okay, we need to do this. We need to sentence, and I’m swatching. And I didn’t have no, no judgment on what was going on. I was just observing everything. I just, I wasn’t, it wasn’t like a type of thing where you’re like, Oh, come on, guys, you gotta help me. Come on. You know, one of those things. It wasn’t nothing like that. I was just watching to see what everybody does and what they say. And so boom, then I leave, and then I go to what appeared was the other side. And so then I’m walking through that tunnel, and then I come up, you know. Up to I’m at white light, and then I’m on the other side, and then I’m talking to some people that I know, that passed away, and I’m talking then I’m talking to a relative of mine, my grandmother. And then the last thing I remember was her asking me, Hey, do you want to stay? And I’m like, there’s a part of me that did. I was like, and it is real beautiful down there. Like, everything’s perfect. This is like, felt like home, you know, like I’m at home. Like, I’m at home. Like, why would I want to leave here? You know? But it took me a while to go ahead and say no. I says, No, I’m gonna go. I got some stuff to do, some stuff that I really want to do. I said, But, I said, but I’ll be back, you know. And she’s telling, oh, you’re Oh, you’re definitely be back. She said, we’re all gonna be back there.
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Xavier Roman 22:10
And then I just smiled that give her a hug. And then boom, when I wake up, I’m in the post operation room. And then I’m starting to, like, open my eyes a little bit, like, you know, drugged up and so forth, of course, looking around like, and then I see the nurse out of my right side, sitting on the right side, and she gets up and she says, Oh, Miss Roman, okay, okay, hey. Are you okay? You okay? Yeah, and, you know, I’m hooked up to what appeared to be like machines and and so forth. And she’s like, okay, give you some quick instructions, and then I’ll repeat them again, you know, just in case you forget, because you’re just waking up, you know. But just for starters, just don’t touch on your stomach, you know. They cut you open right down there, and they left it open, you know, so it didn’t get sewed up, you know. So it’s just open. So their plan is to let it close from the bottom on up, you know, to make sure all your infection gets out and so forth. And don’t touch this. You got a tube on this side and it’s draining, and tube on this side and it’s training, all right? Who does that? Like, what about needle and thread? Why didn’t they Sew me up? Like everybody else, right? You know? Like, yeah, you got a big bandage over there, but that’s all you got. Just don’t touch that. Tell me about the pump, morphine pump. It’s going to trigger off every this many minutes. And if I want to sooner than this much time, I gotta push it, you know, case I started feeling then she said, But I shouldn’t film. This is real heavy, heavy pain, that’s and then she says, she says, hey, you know, like, I’m glad you’re okay. She’s like, she says, the way she said, she says, she says, you know, Doc, of them, they almost lost you. They brought you back. And boom, my eyes, I looked at her, they opened so wide, my heartbeat started going up. The machine started I went over the drugs. That’s what it felt like, that, like my body, my mind went over, whatever drugs, you know, the pain, the morphine that you could give me, it went over. My drowsiness kind of went away. And I’m like, what? And she’s like, Yeah, what happened? I was like, I seen it all. I said, I seen it all. I started giving her details. I said, he said this, and he was swearing, and he said, he was he said this, you know, out loud. And then they started, they started moving, scrambling real fast. What’s the, what’s the the monitor went, you know, flat and so forth, and this, and that, this, this. She’s like, Oh my God. She’s like, you know, if you’re tired, it’s just relax. I says. She said, but you got to calm down. She said, You You really got to relax. You know, this, you’re making everything, you know, go away. I says, no, no, it’s me. I said, it’s me. You know, I’m doing it, you know? I says, because, because I’m just like, in like, like, I said I was thinking that before you told me that I was like, it was a dream. You know, that was maybe that was a dream. I says, but no, your I says, You’re right. You are absolutely right, I says, and that’s why I just told you those details. And she’s like, Oh my God. She’s like, you know, I’ve been here for, like, I don’t know. She’s like, close to 30 years or something like that. And she’s like, you know, I’ve heard of other nurses meeting somebody or dealing with a patient. You know that if that’s happened to it’s never happened to me, you know, and I’m almost retired, and you know, like it, but I mean, you’re my you’re the first one I’ve ever seen that she’s like, I gotta ask you some stuff. And I was like, I’m still like, the mom, just like, I’m like, Yeah, whatever is this, yeah, I says, I mean, I even had sweat coming down a little bit like, Oh my god. Oh my God, my God. Like, she’s like, just relax, catch your breath. Yeah. So a little more, she gave us more she gave us more action. That was real. Wow, that was real. Oh, my God, that was real. Okay, okay. And then, yeah, just too many emotions. And so I just went ahead and and I told her, she she gave me some time, she came back, and she’s just asking me, what was it like? What was this? What was that? How did you feel? What was it like over there, you know, this, I just told her, and then later on, she’s like, Hey, you know, do you mind if I come to your room? Because, you know, I still want to talk to you more, you know, if I come to room, you know, but I won’t come as your nurse. I can’t do that because you’ll have another nurse once you get up there. But I won’t be a nurse, you know. I just want to come to visit, you know, just to talk to you. I said, Yeah, sure. I said, Sure, no problem. I have a lot of questions, no problem. I said, just come on down. You know, I’ll let my wife know if she asked if you guys should come in the same time. But yeah, sure, and she did, she did. She did come up there later. And yeah, she she had ton of questions. And so that, everything that I knew that happened, it was a little bit of time. But on that, it seemed like longer on that side than over here on this side. And, you know, I just shared with whatever it came to me that I thought,
Manon Bolliger 28:10
that I knew, is that then, I mean, at that point you realized, because I was going to ask you, you know, you went to the hospital, you went, it’s like you had a skill. Did you forget that you could heal? I
Xavier Roman 28:27
forgot I wasn’t even thinking about that night. No, I was not thinking about that. That didn’t come into my head, not once. Wow, I was just taken way off from where I was to where I am now. And once she said that, I was like, How did she know? Like, no, I knew how she knew. Because they had to actually experience and see and this happened this and watch them because of this, you know, they have to say all that stuff. And she knew it. So once she told me that, I was like, Wow. I was like,
Manon Bolliger 29:06
wow, yeah. Well, that’s, yeah, that’s quite a quite, quite the story of anyway, I feel like we don’t have a lot of time. I was going to share, I was going to share something about my surgery, kind of similar, where I was aware of all the discussions, you know, like when they were because I don’t hold the anesthesia doesn’t work for me, and they’re saying, Oh no, we’ve given her, like that old dose. We can’t give her more. And I was, like, aware of all this. But I think the way you explain the awareness is, is I can relate to that. I haven’t spent a lot of time understanding it, but no, that’s I’m gonna have to look in that path a little bit more, what was really going on there, because it’s a very powerful experience. So we have about 10. Minutes left, and one of the questions I get asked by a lot of people is, how does energy work? Now you’ve already described a little bit that you know you’re feeling this light, and you’re you’re wanting to help, and you’re focusing it to another person. And those who have been recently listening to my show are very aware of my partner, Tony, who has been in really terrible pain, and it seems to be getting worse and worse, not better. And I, you know, with my background, I’ve tried everything under the sun. I’ve had very wonderful people with great success trying to help him as well. And so I asked you, right before the show, would you mind demonstrating? And let’s put it out there healing, allowing his body to do the healing, but do whatever the magic is, because his pain is, it’s like on an on a it used to be four to six for like, three out of 10 for pain, you know, for three, four hours, and then it would go into intense jobs of eight to 12. And what’s been happening almost steadily for two weeks, I think the last two days, has been a little bit better, but it’s been eight to 12 almost the whole time, and it’s been just, you know, we have a lot of humor, we share a lot of love, but to have someone you you love, suffering like this and, yeah, not knowing what next, and not having a Clear, you know, I listened to the universe, and it’s like, when you came on the show and I read your bio again, I went, Oh, maybe, you know, so, so if you, if you’re okay, then let’s, yeah, yeah, sure. I’m just going to just bring him into the picture that one second. Okay,
Xavier Roman 32:26
hey, there.
Speaker 1 32:29
All right, all right, okay, so what are your symptoms that you’re feeling?
Tony 32:38
So basically, it’s, it’s all down the side of my head and my ear. It feels it’s a neuralgia pain, but it feels like people are like sticking needles in, or sometimes it feels like it’s on fire. That’s the more gentle version. But no, it’s, it’s really pretty damn painful. Yeah, okay, I’m sorry for how else to explain it.
Manon Bolliger 33:07
Do you want to add the entities you could mention? Yeah, no. Some people you know have said that they’re seeing clear entities. That are really interfering with his ability to heal, and that is kind of a new world for me. I feel like I see them as well in people, but I don’t know. I don’t know where it fits. I’m too close to know what to do with him.
Xavier Roman 33:44
Okay, that’s definitely good to know, though, that’s definitely good to know. Now, how long has this been going on?
Tony 33:52
About a year and a half, okay,
Xavier Roman 33:57
year and a half, that’s, that’s what it triggered off. Year and a half, that’s when it first triggered.
Tony 34:01
It started. I had shingles, and that went away pretty quickly. Manon healed that with homeopathy. But then directly after that, I started getting pains, like all the rash disappeared and, yeah, that’s really when I noticed it, I suppose.
Manon Bolliger 34:20
And the context of the time period was it was a time where, you know, we were with family, and it was like, New Year’s Eve, or that kind of time. And we do a lot of family things, but it is like we’re not allowed to speak about certain things, like, you know, the this bio weapon and things like that. We, you know, we can’t speak about it, and it’s taboo talk. And I think there was a lot of weight emotionally,
Tony 34:52
yeah, no, I think that’s true, that he couldn’t speak, yeah, not to be out, speak out, really. And how I felt, I. The information I had, and also to be very much labeled as a conspiracy theorist.
Speaker 1 35:07
Well, I will say from the first time I seen you, you’re definitely not a conspiracy theorist. And I thought the same thing you did too, when I when you first, not this time, but originally before, when you first, when your face first popped up, that’s the first thing I got to, yeah. Okay, so pain level where you at right now? From one to 10?
Tony 35:36
No, it’s seven or eight, I would say, yeah.
Xavier Roman 35:40
Okay, and you said it’s right here on your right side.
35:43
It’s right down here, and my ear included as well. Yeah,
Xavier Roman 35:47
okay, okay, cool. Okay, so this is how I do it. I don’t know if you’ve seen any of my videos on the social media or the website, but so what I do is I’m going to close my eyes, and I’ll tell you when I’m going to go ahead again. If you want to close your eyes and relax, you could too. You don’t need to. You don’t need to. You could close your eyes too, breathe in through your mouth and out your nose. And if you’re really having trouble relaxing, if you’re or concentrating on nothing, then you could you could count out in three seconds and out three seconds, or in four seconds and out four seconds. Once we begin. Now, you’re able to go ahead and speak to me while my eyes are closed, and I will talk to you back if you had questions, or if you felt something, or so forth. We could do that we could exchange during the process. And I don’t know how long it’s going to take, I just when I’m done, then I’m done, then I just open my eyes and I say, Okay, I’m done. And then you’ll let me know how you feel from that.
Tony 36:54
Cool. Sounds good.
Xavier Roman 36:56
]Alright, alright. So you let me know when you’re ready. I’ll go ahead and get ready. Ready. Okay, here we go. Okay, you
Tony 37:26
okay,
Xavier Roman 37:33
yeah, I definitely feel quite a bit calmer. Yeah, certainly and Yeah, one thing that occurred to me is, you know, spoke about like when it began. It’s not so much about being called like a conspiracy theorist or whatever. At school, I got bullied quite a lot. I used to have my ears used to stick out called jumbo and big ears. It’s not about name calling, it’s about being misunderstood. And for me, that’s quite a big thing that I’ve never really kind of acknowledged. Yeah, that I yeah, I don’t like to be misrepresented, you know, by way more than a name Yeah, because name calling just bounces off me if I don’t relate to, I don’t relate to, you know, who cares? But it’s that inherently misunderstanding this sort of occurred to me, yeah, and I’m sure that’s certainly a part of the healing. Got no doubt, yeah, um,
Xavier Roman 38:47
where’s your pain level at now
Tony 38:49
i I’d say it’s gone down to about four, actually. Yeah.
Speaker 1 38:52
Okay, let me try one more thing. Okay, try one more thing. One more thing. Oh, I You
Tony 39:30
okay,
Xavier Roman 39:37
how do you feel?
Tony 39:38
Yeah, funny enough, I feel about the same, like four, but I feel, yeah, there’s a level underneath the pain that’s always there, you know, that I’ve kind of haven’t totally, you know, and I’m not kind of making some kind of psychological or spirit. Bit shorter, but there’s a level under the pain that I feel like could rest in a little bit more, you know, regardless of the pain. You know, I said I’m not trying to make some No, no, no. I’m talking to myself as well, because I’m a bit judgmental, like, that’s good, that’s good.
Xavier Roman 40:20
We are there every day. Oh, but I’m
Tony 40:22
not but, and I think I could feel that regardless of whether it’s 456, or whatever. So, um, no, and I did. I loved his stories as well. By the way, are you really good to make me smile, and I can associate with it in some ways. Well, oh,
Xavier Roman 40:45
cool, yeah, yeah. They just, they just, every time I see them, they just feel like, feels like I’m reliving them right at the moment, because I could see everything, like in 3d like it’s just happening right now. There’s a whole TV show that used to come on, where the person, I don’t know if you used to be called Cold Case, so, where they would do crime reenactments, and then the person in their mind, they used to be able to go back, you know, when they’re like little kids and or back in a time, like in the 1800s or something like that. You know, they could relive it, but it’d be like, real and stuff like that. That’s how it feels like to me.
Tony 41:23
Yeah, no, that’s what it felt like. It was, like you were, yeah, it was a real from Ireland originally. There’s a lot of storytellers in Ireland, you know. But I just felt, yeah, you know, just a genuine, hey, you’re just telling it how it is, and you will reliving it. So, yeah,
Manon Bolliger 41:42
okay, well, thank you so much for spending the time with us and and people on the the gifts you have and the latent gifts that might be in more more of us that we’re not yet fully aware or allowing so I found it really inspirational, and thank you, and we’ll follow up.
Xavier Roman 42:07
Okay? Thank you as well, and I appreciate it, and thank you for allowing me to help you. Thank
Manon Bolliger 42:12
you. So where can people reach you?
Xavier Roman 42:15
You can reach me on my website, which is my name, Xavier roman.com, that’s X, A, V, I, E, R, R, O, M, a, n.com, and then on the website, you’ll see some quick videos people here and there, in hospitals, at home and so forth. And then below it you’ll see all the social media. So just click on there. And then you could, you know, see more, way more videos on there, and then, yeah,
Manon Bolliger 42:45
okay, thank you. You’re welcome. So thoughts about the conversation with Xavier savior, I think is how he pronounces it is that it’s again, about healing. You know, what does it take to heal? There’s the healer and all of their capacities, their energies, their experience, and then there’s the client or the patient. And it’s really about seeing, how, how does that merge? What What will take, what will work, what is needed, yeah, and you know, is this the right route? You know? So these are all questions. Now, it looked like there was an impact on the spot. And then what’s the prognosis? You know, can it be that, after a good sleep, like he mentioned, that things could get better? You know, in Bowen, we always say five days, give the body five days. And sleep is really important, because that’s also the the reestablishment of the autonomic nervous system rebalancing, which does impact, because a lot of pain produces stress, and during a good night’s sleep, there’s a rebalancing which allows more healing to take place. So I think that’s that’s important. And, you know, five days is just something. I’ve noticed that it sort of settles, and then one can do more if, if it’s required. So, you know, I’m looking at in energetic therapies. What are the parameters? Yeah, who’s it for? How does it work? These are all, you know, my questions, and open open questions. I definitely have lots of questions, obviously, about, you know, the systems we take for granted that work, because I have not seen so much, so I’m not as impressed. But it’s, you know, certainly when. We look at traditional medicines, like Chinese medicine, acupuncture, Ayurvedic medicine, homeopathy, all of those. I mean, there’s lots of research that shows its effectiveness, energy medicine, quantum medicine, that’s definitely on the rise now, and I think as a society, we’re becoming more sensitive and more able to attune ourselves to this type of frequency. So it’ll be interesting to see what is healing in that context?
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